You’re walking up to that person that you find attractive, maybe it’s in middle school, high school or out at a social engagement. By the time you get there, you’re sweating, breathing heavy and the voices are screaming “Turn around quick, run there’s still time”. What’s happening here? Those voices and feelings are designed to keep you safe. There’s nothing wrong with staying in the safe zone, unless you’re looking to gain something that most haven’t – Your Dream Life.
We’ve all had those times in our lives. Here’s the issue, there was a time when you had no fear. Tony Robbins states that we have two real fears…Falling and Loud noises.
In the example above, that isn’t a natural fear or hesitation. It typically comes from a place of unworthiness or lack of belief in one’s self AKA lack of confidence. Now, hang on a moment, this isn’t meant to beat anyone up. I have no right to judge, as I have come from the same place.
This is to bring awareness. We need to know what is mindset training and what is not. See below.
So many times, we look to take some sort of action and stop. I realize that’s a vague statement, hear me out. Typically what will stop the movement is an experience from the past. We might not remember that exact moment, however we remember the feeling. Our body remembers the feeling and we Make A Choice at that very moment to run and hide or stay and Fight For What for ourselves. This is no simple task, unless you know what mindset training is and how it can help.
First: Ego may cause resistance to mindset training. “I’m not broken” “I’m already good enough” “Everyone deals with that“
In order to accept and receive we must first be ready to accept the fact that we can become greater each day. We all have room for improvement. Imagine having the confidence to walk up to anyone and have a conversation, in any circumstance or having the ability to shrink your comfort zone each day. Wouldn’t it be cool to pick up your phone and make that call you’ve been putting off?
Second: Ease your way into it. There are some that can jump right into the advanced stuff and that’s great. For me, I had to start with something a little more low key… The War of Art. I first needed to understand what resistance was. Honestly, I had resistance to mindset training.
What is mindset training and what it’s not. The hype type of event, does nothing except make you excited. Excitement will only last so long.
A great training will open your mind to a totally new and expanded way of thinking. It will bring about a new “What’s Possible” about you. It will let you know how your past does not predict your now and future. Your past is actually a product of your now. It’s how we evaluate situations and instances in time.
Sound kooky? I get that. It didn’t make sense to me either. I had understand why we react, why we love, why we fear and hate, why we hold onto to thoughts that don’t serve us and how we got here.
A tiny bit about me: I was a self destructive, mean, heart-broken, egotistical person that only cared about something if it directly affected me. Thank God for someone pointing me in a different direction. Up until that point, I was lonely. I took a look around one day and realized that I didn’t have any friends and had to admit to myself that maybe it’s me.
I can literally go on for days here. The point to the above, if I can realize greatness, so can you. When you realize that greatness is available, you’ll start seeing it in others. That’s when YOU make an Impact On The World.
Here are some recommended books and audios. By the way, I typically listen to them on Audible.
War of Art by Steven Pressfield
Awaken The Giant Within by Tony Robbins
The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy
The Miracle Morning by Hal Elrod
You are totally going to dig them. Appreciate you for being here with me.
For a moment, imagine what’s possible in your life. If you can’t see your future, create it. Get out a piece of paper and a pen/pencil and write out what you want your future to look like. It must be written to link your emotions to your Vision.
Understand that what you create is possible in your own mind. If it wasn’t you couldn’t think it for yourself.
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