Regardless of your thoughts on fear and whether it exists for you, it’s very real for a lot of people. It stops most from making sound decisions about their future greatness. The perception of what fear and rejection represent, is typically letting people down and looking bad. To remove the fear of failure, we must seek the origin.
As we are growing up, we’re put on a sliding scale in school. Typically it’s A through F. If you’re an A student there is praise and celebration, which is rightly deserved. On the opposite side of the spectrum, if you earn an F, there’s typically ridicule from your peers. Most parents, don’t know how to handle this sort of “Bad” grade and it turns into punishment. I remember getting in trouble for getting C’s, D’s and an F, every once in a while.
I fell behind in my school work, through my own fault and had a difficult time keeping up. So far behind, that no matter how hard I “Tried”, I couldn’t catch up. I felt like I was disappointing my parents and felt more and more like a failure.
This experience branded, in my mind that no matter how hard I tried at something that was hard, I would fail and disappoint the people around me.
Obviously, you and I know that this isn’t the case and a made up story in our head.
Before I know all that, it was a very real situation.
It the Video Below, I say something about Fear…That my change the way you look at fear forever.
Do you realize that using Fear of Rejection is actually selfish? Being more concerned about how people see you and look at you, over the possible lifetime impact, is selfish. Think about that for a moment, as I know it’s a hard pill to swallow.
Where would you be today, if someone didn’t put away their pride to ask you to take a look at something?
You can do that for others as well. We must remove ourselves from the equation in order to serve others the best we can.
When we do that, Fear is no longer the issue.
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